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I will be sharing this sad experience with you today, so you are welcome to Juwie Blog. Although am not married yet but I hate to see broken homes because the outcome is very bad and heart breaking, though that's where I belong anyway.
Am going to share with you today the story of a man that I knew so much. Don't forget the topic of this post "Don't have this thought before getting married", and what do you think I could be talking about? You know, I so much love lovely families, I really love to see wonderful families, families built on true love, caring and understanding.
This is what am trying to say by saying "don't have this thought before getting married", I really mean don't be like, "am going to have heaven and earth before getting married", you are just to end up having none of these two and if you get it, it's gonna be late for you. Even me myself have this same thought "I must have heaven and earth before getting married" but after experiencing the story of this man am about to share with you, my thoughts about this changed and I hope yours won't be an exception.
I didn't know when he was growing up because I wonder what motivate him to have such thoughts "I must have heaven and earth (hope you know what I mean by having heaven and earth but in case you don't know, having heaven and earth in this article means having money, owning a house, car and all other worldly materials) before getting married, though I have what motivates mine but I must confess to you he regrets ever having such thoughts in the first place.
A whole lot of people were saying alot of things about him both behind and in confrontation that maybe he is impotent or something. He always have lies as backings for confrontations. Along the line, he was having difficulties in passing out urine and was told it is a PROSTATE. He was afraid because of what he has heard people talked that after the operation of the PROSTATE, the patient won't be able to produce child talk less of children. So he decided to get another means to get rid of the PROSTATE (supplements) but unfortunately he was duped, the supplements were fake.
And later after taking the supplements for sometimes before knowing the supplements were fake, he then begin to have another symptom of disease aside that of the PROSTATE. After he has been having PROSTATE for more than 6months, he later went to to the hospital for proper care to regain his health. To cut the story short, on getting to the hospital, he was diagnosed with PROSTATE CANCER. He fought all he could to gain back his heath but all seems to be of no avail. He went from one hospital to another, getting to one of the most equipped hospital in his country (public/government hospital), the whole government hospital in the country went on strike the next day he arrived there at the hospital.
Unfortunately for him, he was dis-charged the next day he arrived at the hospital. The strike was later cut-off after about a month. He then went back to the hospital, when he got there alot of tests was conducted and this time the results came out really bad. He was diagnosed again and was told it's ADVANCED PROSTATE CANCER. Can you just imagine that? From prostate to prostate cancer, from prostate cancer now to Advanced Prostate Cancer. He holds on until he could not be able to held on any more, then gave-up the ghost. Even after he died at the hospital, the doctors called "a very strong man", they don't believe he could live that long. That's how he ended up his life at 57th years of age, no wife no child talk less of children, what such of useless and reckless life is that?
After experiencing this, immediately I change my thoughts, my thoughts now changed to " forest doesn't happen in a day but starts in a gradual process, one tree to two and like that like that till it becomes a forest", it's mostly males that usually have this thoughts and few of the females. Even if your partner challenge you to this form of thought, sit he/she down and talk about things should be, help that partner of yours to see what he/she couldn't see but you do or better still share this post with that your partner. Let's have a turn around kind of live, let change our way of thinking because our way of thinking is what we are.
Marriage shouldn't be built on material things alone but should be build on true love, trust and understanding because the material things will surely fade away without true love and it's associates. I challenge you to have a change of thought concerning this.
I appeal to you to have your say on this post by commenting on the comment box below. I and the other readers will love you to share with us your experience and what you think about this article, thank you Juwie Blog cares.
Please take note:- Marriage is beautiful with true love that comprises of true lovers.
I will be sharing this sad experience with you today, so you are welcome to Juwie Blog. Although am not married yet but I hate to see broken homes because the outcome is very bad and heart breaking, though that's where I belong anyway.
Am going to share with you today the story of a man that I knew so much. Don't forget the topic of this post "Don't have this thought before getting married", and what do you think I could be talking about? You know, I so much love lovely families, I really love to see wonderful families, families built on true love, caring and understanding.
This is what am trying to say by saying "don't have this thought before getting married", I really mean don't be like, "am going to have heaven and earth before getting married", you are just to end up having none of these two and if you get it, it's gonna be late for you. Even me myself have this same thought "I must have heaven and earth before getting married" but after experiencing the story of this man am about to share with you, my thoughts about this changed and I hope yours won't be an exception.
I didn't know when he was growing up because I wonder what motivate him to have such thoughts "I must have heaven and earth (hope you know what I mean by having heaven and earth but in case you don't know, having heaven and earth in this article means having money, owning a house, car and all other worldly materials) before getting married, though I have what motivates mine but I must confess to you he regrets ever having such thoughts in the first place.
A whole lot of people were saying alot of things about him both behind and in confrontation that maybe he is impotent or something. He always have lies as backings for confrontations. Along the line, he was having difficulties in passing out urine and was told it is a PROSTATE. He was afraid because of what he has heard people talked that after the operation of the PROSTATE, the patient won't be able to produce child talk less of children. So he decided to get another means to get rid of the PROSTATE (supplements) but unfortunately he was duped, the supplements were fake.
And later after taking the supplements for sometimes before knowing the supplements were fake, he then begin to have another symptom of disease aside that of the PROSTATE. After he has been having PROSTATE for more than 6months, he later went to to the hospital for proper care to regain his health. To cut the story short, on getting to the hospital, he was diagnosed with PROSTATE CANCER. He fought all he could to gain back his heath but all seems to be of no avail. He went from one hospital to another, getting to one of the most equipped hospital in his country (public/government hospital), the whole government hospital in the country went on strike the next day he arrived there at the hospital.
Unfortunately for him, he was dis-charged the next day he arrived at the hospital. The strike was later cut-off after about a month. He then went back to the hospital, when he got there alot of tests was conducted and this time the results came out really bad. He was diagnosed again and was told it's ADVANCED PROSTATE CANCER. Can you just imagine that? From prostate to prostate cancer, from prostate cancer now to Advanced Prostate Cancer. He holds on until he could not be able to held on any more, then gave-up the ghost. Even after he died at the hospital, the doctors called "a very strong man", they don't believe he could live that long. That's how he ended up his life at 57th years of age, no wife no child talk less of children, what such of useless and reckless life is that?
After experiencing this, immediately I change my thoughts, my thoughts now changed to " forest doesn't happen in a day but starts in a gradual process, one tree to two and like that like that till it becomes a forest", it's mostly males that usually have this thoughts and few of the females. Even if your partner challenge you to this form of thought, sit he/she down and talk about things should be, help that partner of yours to see what he/she couldn't see but you do or better still share this post with that your partner. Let's have a turn around kind of live, let change our way of thinking because our way of thinking is what we are.
Marriage shouldn't be built on material things alone but should be build on true love, trust and understanding because the material things will surely fade away without true love and it's associates. I challenge you to have a change of thought concerning this.
I appeal to you to have your say on this post by commenting on the comment box below. I and the other readers will love you to share with us your experience and what you think about this article, thank you Juwie Blog cares.
Please take note:- Marriage is beautiful with true love that comprises of true lovers.
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